They’re out there, natural leaders, that is. These are people who make leadership seem as easy and ordinary as riding a bike. They have a measured way about them and just seem, intuitively, to know what to do and how to do it. A Lunch Meeting I happened to have... read more →
Mar
15
Jan
19
What’s grounding you as you move into 2024? As a leader in life (home and work), what behaviors are going to positively support your key deliverables this year? Solid leaders are very deliberate. They plan for contingencies. But here, I’m not talking about business planning for the year. I’m talking... read more →
Dec
19
For better or worse, the end of the year tends to be a whirlwind. There’s a flurry of activity - parties, family gatherings, gift exchanges, year-end deadlines, and moments of pure magic with our loved ones! All of this adds up quickly, and let’s face it, it can get a... read more →
Nov
13
Have you felt anxious lately? Then good news - you’re a normal, living creature! I probably wouldn’t be alive if I didn’t feel anxious at times. So, what actually is it? Anxiousness is defined as a fear, dread, or uneasiness about real or perceived threats.[1] (Yes, we can get anxious... read more →
Sep
30
We’re so much more automatic than we think we are. Have you ever driven from one place to another and honestly couldn’t remember what happened along the way? Maybe you were listening to a favorite song or you were really upset about what someone just said or did. And, at... read more →
Aug
29
Me the SME You’re most likely in your job because you’re smart and good at what you do. In some cases, you might even be a subject matter expert. Your opinions matter. So, what happens when your opinions or ideas are challenged? How do you typically respond? As we approach... read more →
Jul
12
It’s already mid-year and a good opportunity to check in on the success of your work to-date. So, here’s my first question to help gauge this: How would you gauge the quality of your professional relationships right now? There is often a strong correlation between positive answers here and the... read more →
May
21
Leadership trends come and go. One, though, that has staying power is the concept of situational leadership (Hersey and Blanchard). The bottom-line here is the leader’s ability to adjust her or his style of leadership based on the need of the moment. Their eyes are on the individual, the team,... read more →
Apr
19
“No man is an island,” English poet John Donne famously said. But I think that if we had our choice, many of us would really try to be islands. We might prefer to work mostly alone – doors closed, communicating mostly through email, or, the sometimes-annoying, IM. I’m pretty sure,... read more →
Feb
19
When our dog, Lucy, did something like chew up the binder of a book or dig through the wastebasket, we would playfully say, “Who did this?” We humans can sometimes be quick to assign blame. As old and wise as I supposedly am, too often, I look for someone else... read more →